Guide: How to master your first escort date
Maybe it's a new idea that's floating around in your head. Maybe you've been drawn to my escort website for a while. You keep clicking on my pictures, reading my texts and dreaming of your first date with me. But you are still afraid of the decisive step.
Are you worried about how your first date with an escort lady might look like? Then I have put together a guide for you that will hopefully take away your worries. I take you by the hand and explain to you what to expect and what tricks will help you to prepare for your first escort booking.
Sink into my arms and enjoy the date of your dreams!
Let's dream ourselves once into a world in which you have already written me an email. You've booked a nice hotel room and are waiting for me with butterflies in your stomach. Then it finally knocks. Your first escort date begins.
Perhaps these first few minutes are particularly mysterious for you. After all, two complete strangers meet. Could it be that the chemistry is not right? How do you actually hand over the money? You have a hundred questions running through your head as I smile at you.
Don't worry, nothing can go wrong. We'll toast with a glass of champagne (or an alternative of your choice, I like juice spritzers) and chat first. If you can't get a word out, I'll be happy to take the lead. That's my job - I want you to feel comfortable.
Then we go to the hotel's own restaurant and have a nice, romantic dinner. This has several advantages. On the one hand, we don't have so far to go to the room afterwards. For another, it gives us even more time to get to know each other and flirt. In my opinion, the classic dinner date is the best way to break the ice and warm up to each other.
Back in the room, the temperature in the shower increases even more. Of course we shower together, right? The sound of thousands of pattering water drops, warm steam enveloping our bodies and my soft skin getting goosebumps under your fingertips - doesn't that whet your appetite for more?
If you're still excited, an oil massage is a great idea to explore our bodies informally. Best of all, we'll both be naked in bed and have the perfect starting position for further adventures.
These are the questions you should ask yourself before your first booking
How long do we want to meet? In my experience, 5 hours is ideal for a first meeting. In the end, however, it also depends on your time possibilities. However, the first time should not be the two-week travel companion - we should first see how well we harmonize.
Do you have a rough timetable for our meeting? For the first date, I think it's nice not to plan too many adventures. A tightly timed schedule only constricts us. However, a rough roadmap is great - I'm someone who incredibly likes to plan and organize myself. But you know what's even better? Throwing all those plans overboard, doing something different, and savoring every minute of it.
What expectations do you have of our date? I often notice that men put themselves under a lot of pressure and have high expectations of themselves. On the other hand, they sometimes expect me to have magical powers that will completely change their lives. Both are unrealistic. There is no guarantee that our first date will go down in the history books as a "perfect" evening. But we can both approach it with an open mind and curiosity and see where it takes us.
Are there any erotic special requests that you would like to address? Our meeting naturally has an erotic component. It helps enormously if you tell me roughly your wishes, dreams and fantasies. Then I can tune into you and even bring the necessary accessories. Do you enjoy the togetherness while cuddling or would you rather realize a sexual fantasy?
Where will our meeting place be? Would it help you if we met in a public place, like a restaurant or bar? Or would you prefer to meet in an intimate setting, like a hotel room? A Incall would also be an option, in which case I will take care of the hotel booking.
My best tips for beginners in the dream escort world
You are probably plagued by very practical questions about the process of an escort date. My tips will hopefully help you get a feel for the flow of our date.
The question I read most often is when and how you should hand over my fee. An unsealed envelope that you hand over to me at the beginning of the date is usual. If you don't like to carry a lot of cash, or if you max out your daily withdrawal limit with the debit, you can transfer more than the obligatory 20% deposit in advance. That way, the financial part is out of the way and we can focus on other aspects of our date.
Before a first escort date (if we both do not know each other yet), I like to talk on the phone. This helps immensely to get a feel for each other. I often hear that it dulls the excitement and increases the anticipation. The phone call only lasts a few short minutes because I respect your time.
On the topic Escort date nervousness I have written a whole article, which takes up the matter more deeply. Briefly summarized: It is perfectly understandable and partly even desired that you have palpitations before the date. I don't feel any different! I myself am nervous before every meeting. A little excitement is part of it and is completely normal.
In my opinion, there is no huge difference between an escort date and "classic" first dates. Sure, we didn't meet via Tinder and a small envelope changes hands at the beginning of the meeting. However, in the best case scenario, those are the only differences. My goal is that you feel accepted, respected and desired.
Turn your dream into reality now!
Book your first escort date with me now! You can do virtually nothing wrong if you write me a nice mail. Ask as many questions as you need to feel safe! You can, but don't have to tell me that it's your first escort date. I can imagine that booking with an escort for the first time feels weird - after all, you don't know exactly what to expect yet. But I promise that I will take a lot of time for you.
You can reach me best via my contact form or by e-mail. I look forward to our first date!
Kisses,
Maya
