5 reasons why you don't need to be nervous before an escort date
Pssst: I'll let you in on a little secret. I'm still nervous before every single date! That's why I can feel very well how you feel in the hours, days and weeks before our meeting.
The nervousness might be so bad that you don't even dare to make a date with an escort lady. And that's a terrible shame! Because there's no reason to let excitement stand between you and a wonderful experience. I have collected five reasons why you don't have to be tense before an escort date with me - and how you can really enjoy the nerve-racking feeling.
Reason 1: Butterflies in the stomach are a firm part of an escort date
Your hands slide down my soft skin until your fingers grip my hips. With a fluid movement, you pull me down onto your lap while I bend over your upper body. You feel my long hair tickling you....
Or is this tickling the fluttering of butterflies in your stomach? Your head is running through a thousand scenarios of what we can do together during our time together. Of course, this creates a certain (tension).
But isn't the heart palpitations part of the deal?
A date with an escort lady is a total work of art that definitely benefits from a pinch of excitement. It is not exclusively about the sensuality and eroticism in our encounter. The experience alone is an exciting escape from everyday life.
A little excitement is part of it, of course, but it shouldn't bother you in advance. If your heart is pounding and you can't think straight, my mailbox is always open. Maybe there are questions you have in your head that I can answer.
Reason 2: Self-care for body and soul
An escort booking is the perfect occasion to do something good for yourself. I always notice how difficult this is for many men.
A date with an escort lady is a wonderful opportunity to get dressed up again. Get the good clothes out of the wardrobe, put on your favourite perfume (I love men who smell good!) and book a table at the new trendy restaurant.
Of course, "first times" are always exciting. But the nervousness before the date is made up for a thousand times over by the relaxing effect that a meeting with an escort lady has in our experience. Did you know that sex reduces stress hormones in the body and can lower blood pressure?
And if you take some of that feeling into your day or feel it when you wake up the next morning, I'm all the happier.
Reason 3: Planning and organisation in the hands of a master
...and by "master hand" I mean me. ;)
I admit it: I'm a bit of an organisation nerd. I love to plan things (and especially dates). That's why I also thought of the escort complete package: We set a date together and I take care of the planning and organisation in the background.
With a classic hotel date, there is not as much to organise as with a travel companion. Nevertheless, there are always a few small questions that can cause uncertainty. But not with me!
If I host an Incall and you come to visit me for an escort date at the hotel, I have a very clear information policy. Where can you find the lift or the staircase? Where am I sitting in the lobby and what am I wearing? What else do you need to know?
My thought behind it: I can move much more freely and confidently if I know exactly where I have to go. This feeling gives me security and reduces my excitement enormously. And I hope that my date feels the same way at an incall!
Reason 4: No one will know about your adventure
The fear that everyone suspects something: the secretary, your colleagues, the taxi driver, the hotel staff... An understandable thought, but completely unfounded.
Don't worry. You don't have "Attention everyone, I'm about to meet an escort!" tattooed on your forehead.
Two people, a man and a woman, talking nicely and flirting a little at most. Every person will assume that we are on a normal date. If you like, we can also keep some distance in public. Then we can even pass as acquaintances or friends who go out for a drink together.
Especially the check-in at the hotel might give you a stomach ache. Will the staff at the reception notice that I am meeting an escort? Will they openly ask me about it in front of all the other guests? Will they throw me out of the room?
If you have booked for two people but are checking in alone, it's no problem at all. (And yes, I would always book a room for two people so that there are enough bed linen and bathrobes - I speak from experience). I have never experienced anyone asking questions. On the contrary: in luxury hotels with 4 stars or more, discretion is the top priority.
And if someone asks who the second person is and what their relationship is? Then it's enough to say that your guest (i.e. me) is coming later and we have a date. It doesn't matter how you know each other. But I have never heard of someone asking so many questions at the reception.
Reason 5: After the date is before the date
You finally met the woman of your dreams and spent a few wonderful hours with her. We had a good meal, got closer and shared intimate moments. And then... should it just be over? Saying goodbye is just as much a part of an escort date as the excitement beforehand.
Basically, this is an advantage: after dates from the escort service, there are no more emotional commitments. No ghosting, no love drama, no jealousy.
But the "after-date blues" is a real thing that I know all too well. I regularly get lost in daydreams on Mondays after a great weekend. Often it helps to plan together and look forward to a new date. That way you can keep some tingling in your everyday life - every time you look at your diary.
Conclusion: I'm just as excited and nervous as you are - and I love it!
If all this doesn't completely convince you, maybe a quick thought experiment: You already know me from my website and maybe even from Twitter and Instagram. You've browsed my blogs and zoomed in on my pictures. Even if I make my face unrecognisable online, that's a bit of a knowledge advantage you have! Because I usually only know you from our email contact or a short phone call.
Often I even drive to a foreign city for the date. That alone provides enough adrenaline. And then I also meet a great man who I only know from his emails so far! As an escort and student, I can calm my nerves on the train with my flashcards - but that doesn't last long either.
